Go to the venue at the published start time for the event.There is no official start time to the speed dating portion of the evening - we like to wait for all daters to arrive, to have a moment to settle in with a refreshment and mingle should they wish.We are regularly approached by venues looking to have the cheekiest in the world of dating to their spots.We say yes to a very few - limiting it to locales that are at once casually hip and wonderfully flirty.If you have had trouble meeting men, I want you to ask yourself if you've really done enough on your part to meet them. Do Your Research: The next thing to do is to do a little "homework." Do some research and find out what things are going on and available in your area. Don't choose things you have no personal interest in just because you think there might be men there to meet.Just like I tell singles of any age, your perfect person is not just going to show up at your doorstep one day with flowers and a bottle of wine in hand. So I want you to ask yourself if you've done enough. Have you gone on a great online dating site, wrote a really good profile and started contacting some men online? You will not only have more fun, but will also be most successful meeting people, when you are enjoying your life and creating good energy. Make A List: So, I'm challenging you right now to put together a list. You won't believe what is waiting out there for you!I just think that you've been frustrated, and you've let that get to you. Sure enough, after two and-a-half months she did meet a doctor. : Now that we've talked about your mindset, had you do some research and even had you make a list, the only thing left to do is to actually get yourself out there and start meeting people.
We don't find anything romantic about whistles, name-tags or over-the-top party trimmings typically found at singles events so we have done away with them." I have found that you can meet amazing people anywhere and at any age. So many people listen to their friends or the monkey chatter in their own head telling them all the obstacles that stand in their way as a single woman over the age of 35. I don't listen to friends like this, because I find that many singles have attitudes that are just ridiculous.They love to buy into the negative, instead of the positive.We are the only organization to routinely screen daters we feel may not be a good fit for our clients.If we meet a dater we don't think you'll fancy meeting, we'll say 'No thank you' so you don't have to.