I told my youth pastor about her because she wasn’t in the youth group.
I tried to convince him (and myself) that it would be good for me to date her so that she might come to youth group and become a Christian. A few years before this, my youth minister gave our youth group a lesson we called “the triangle talk.” This talk consisted of a triangle drawn out, and the guy on the left base of the triangle and the girl on the right base.
Specifically, it seems that some of you are wondering if it’s okay to date non-Christians. God’s Word urges us not to link our lives with non-believers, and the consequences of choosing to do otherwise can be disastrous.
But I know that you might not be willing to simply take my word on this one.
Some of you have made similar comments here on the blog.For many of you, you may not be ready to be married. Enjoy the friendships with guys around you as brothers.Let them know where you stand, and you will encourage and challenge them to grow as men of the Lord.I am now 22 years old, and I have had five different girlfriends over the years and had crushes on many others.The first two girls I dated were Christians, in the sense that they went to the same church and youth group I was in. We’d hang out, watch movies, talk on the phone, hold hands, and go to dances.