If that's not an easy conversation opener, I truly don't know what is.)But after all sorts of successes and failures with women, as time has gone on, I've found at least common failure: a massive age gap.
I'm, by no means, the most mature 30-year-old dude you're going to meet, and I'm not insinuating that all younger women are flighty or immature.
Don't get me wrong; my dad still plays a huge role in my life, and I can't imagine much outside of impending senility will change that.
What a person should avoid though is being in denial of the things that are glaringly obvious to them.She expects him to change…and he expects her to stay the same.In this story, she expects him to stop flirting with other women, start respecting women, while he expects her to stay slim and fit and beautiful even after the baby.One myth that many couples believe is “Opposites attract and are more likely to stay together.”However, the truth as told by Terri Orbuch in her book, Finding Love again is, “If you want to find someone to grow old with, look for someone who has values and attitude that are similar or compatible to yours.”In other words, those values and attitudes about things like religion, money, family, and careers are very important.2. Then after the wedding, she notices that those traits she hated were nothing but the tip of an iceberg.Of course as the rest of the iceberg appears, so does divorce.3.