I’ve been a waitress before and it’s not easy dealing with those customers who think they are all high and mighty, so if my date treats the staff with anything less than the utmost respect, there’s a 100% chance he’ll never see me again.And hopefully one of them will have spit in his food.When a guy can’t seem to let me get a word in about myself because he’s too busy talking about himself for the whole entire date, it’s a major turn off.A first date conversation is a two-way street, and if he hasn’t asked me a single question about myself, it seems to me that he’s a little too obsessed with himself for my liking! We all need to put God first, this especially includes me. Her beauty and confidence in her own skin made the room light up. I was in a drama/improvisation class with some of my theater friends and one new guy who none of us had seen before. I'm all for someone being confident, but this guy was just arrogant. One time she started casually dating one of my friends.
I get it – If you have something nice, you want to tell people about it and impress them.
And the next week he apologized for talking so much about himself: "I'm sorry for last week. If you like a guy but he isn't doing anything about it, resist forcing the relationship.
Somehow the guy managed to save the conversation and he had us both laughing before I turned and walked out to my car. If a guy is not making the move, then he is not ready or mature enough to lead you spiritually in a relationship. It's better to be single and waiting for the right guy than being with the WRONG GUY when the RIGHT GUY shows up.
I’m no saint and I typically have a potty mouth when it comes to swearing, but if i’m on a first date and it’s a constant string of “this burger is so effing good”, “I effing love Netflix”, F this, F that, I’m going to be a little concerned and a lot turned off.
I have had several comments on my Husband List article expressing the importance of holding ourselves to the same standard to which we do in a man.